Ask Men on Sidechat | Okay question for the guys on here! This boy im talking to is really sweet and when we first started talking, i asked first his insta because i thought he was cute. On halloween he called me “gang”. Does he only see me as a friend or am i overthinking it?

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Okay question for the guys on here! This boy im talking to is really sweet and when we first started talking, i asked first his insta because i thought he was cute. On halloween he called me “gang”. Does he only see me as a friend or am i overthinking it?

Anonymous 16h

I actually feel kind of differently than the other commenters. I'm someone who can only get feelings for people once I know them well and have been friends with them first so it's normal for me to consider my crush a friend. I don't think this necessarily means anything and it could mean anything honestly! As long as you all have a wonderful time talking and hanging out and seem compatible, that's what matters most. If you wanna ask him out and you both are single, you should consider it!

Anonymous 20h

yeah, you might be overthinking

Anonymous 20h

What was the full sentence because he could have just been joking around when he said it?

Anonymous

#1 20h

He messaged me saying “happy Halloween gang”

Anonymous

#1 20h

I overthink a lot and its just been bothering me for awhile, yk?

Anonymous

#1 20h

maybe friendzoned depending on if he called other people gang or not

Anonymous

OP 20h

I mean don’t spiral but I’d never call a girl I was interested in “gang” so I’d say he does see you as just a friend based on this, and saying that is giving me second hand ick. What gang? The KKK? Please.

Anonymous

#1 20h

Aw man, id hope not. We hang out every thursday two after classes and just talk. He’s very nice so i was hoping it wouldnt be that

Anonymous

#1 20h

even if he has you in the friend zone rn, it doesn't mean you can't move into a relationship zone

Anonymous

#2 20h

It just threw me off, especially since he was the first one to like my Halloween photo dump on insta 😭

Anonymous

#3 20h

Im still gonna try but keep it lowkey!

Anonymous

#4 16h

Ill keep this in mind! Even if he turns me down i do like talking to him about random things we think about in a day!

Anonymous

OP 13h

I hope you all have a wonderful time seeing each other! Best of luck

Anonymous

#4 9h

Disgusting! Ew ew ew ew #4 I hope an 18 wheeler takes you out next time you’re on the highway “i can only bang my friends” wtf wtf wtf ew ew ew ew

Anonymous

#2 8h

Explain your logic? Wouldn’t you want to enjoy both the personality as well as the appearance of the person you are courting?