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If I have a hard time not focusing on womens’ bodies, what should I do? Masturbate more to control my sex drive or do no fap to “desexualize” my mind?
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Anonymous 20w

I would recommend guided mediation to understand that thoughts are natural and ok and not to beat up urself because of it

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Anonymous 20w

no fap with porn your passions will be ever fed yet never satisfied, but without it you will be never fed yet ever satisfied

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Anonymous 20w

masturbating more is NOT going to help 💀

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Anonymous 20w

Dont masturbate it only makes things worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

Fr?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

i’m assuming ur watching porn / looking at pics of women’s bodies while masturbating? plus masturbation can become an addiction in and of itself which you don’t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

To pics of women’s bodies or period?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

i don't think you have the experience to be able to speak on this

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 20w

So ur recommendation is…?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Never masturbate as doing so only increases your lust, never reducing it

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 20w

Literally never…? 😮

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Never, if you succumb to lust and break your streak, start again it was one of the best things i have done for myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ here is a good resource for both why you to quit it and how to go about it

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