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Ask Men 18w

is it a 🚩 if he’s using terms like “high value men”?

Anonymous 18w

Run, that sounds like Andrew Tate shit

Anonymous 18w

Yes 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Anonymous 18w

when people say those words i usually think of red pill people but i definitely think when it comes to principles and morals i definitely think it adds value to a person, regardless of whether you're a man or woman. but tbh the high/low value terms are icky to me

Anonymous 18w

It’s like a yellow flag cuz theres men who have a higher moral value but they way he sounds run run as fast as you can

Anonymous 18w

Yes it is a red flag

Anonymous 18w

Yeah that’s someone else’s rhetoric he’s regurgitating. Red flag and a certified “low value man” as he would put it

Anonymous 18w

You can just say “upstanding citizen” or “emotionally mature” or “chivalrous” or something. “High value” is just a way to say “better” without actually describing what he thinks he’s better *at*. Big red flag, especially if he originally used it to describe himself.

Anonymous 18w

yes

Anonymous 18w

Yes, that’s Andrew Tate

Anonymous 18w

GREEN FLAG GREEN FLAG (I’m actually colorblind)

Anonymous 18w

girl run

Anonymous 18w

LOL FUCKING MAN MAN CHILDREN IN THE COMMENTS

Anonymous 17w

I’d find it alarming that they’ve picked up terminology like that, but I don’t think the idea they’re expressing (that some men act with more desirable moral character than others) is in any way problematic. I think it depends where they picked up the term from. Maybe someone in their social circle uses it. I’d ask where they picked that phrase up before rushing to judgement.

Anonymous 18w

I mean in what context did he mention it

Anonymous 18w

it’s giving major red flag vibes

Anonymous 18w

Just dig deeper what morals?

Anonymous 18w

The way he’s using it that’s def a red flag

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Anonymous 18w

Nothing burger tbh

Anonymous 17w

YES.

Anonymous 17w

Honestly this is the first time ive seen the phrase high value man used with an acceptable meaning. Morals/conscience is the first thing to consider not only in “a man” but in everyone. If we as a society gauged how worthy people were off their moral compass we wouldnt be failing nearly as bad as we are now. Not just politically, i mean men/women, black/white, rich/poor, and everything in between.

Anonymous 18w

People have value yes, but it’s a spectrum, to divide folks into have and have not’s is stupid and short sighted, to say nothing of their ability to work on themselves.

Anonymous 17w

Yes The same way a woman calling herself a boss babe, queen, goddess is also a 🚩

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Anonymous

#3 18w

Nobody who used these terms has morals lol it’s always assholes who cope by looking down on others and claiming they’re “high value”

Anonymous

#12 18w

Go away. This is ask men

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Anonymous

#11 18w

I say that as a straight man Also women are allowed to comment here within reason bruh

Anonymous

freestyle 18w

Half of the comments here are clearly women or gay men so idk what we doing here lol

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Anonymous

#11 18w

There’s a screenshot of the context

Anonymous

#5 18w

Can you read

Anonymous

#11 18w

do gay men not count as men

Anonymous

#11 18w

stfu

Anonymous

#11 18w

Gay men…are still men💀

Anonymous

#17 18w

Man man children?

Anonymous

#18 18w

You knew what I meant man child

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Anonymous

#17 18w

At least be original with insults if you're going to throw them around

Anonymous

#21 18w

exactly!! those are much more eloquent ways of describing a man of good morals imo.

Anonymous

#25 17w

I don’t really see this one, I love when a women calls herself a goddess/queen bc she’s typically saying she feels beautiful and powerful at that time, she’s not being a misogynistic asshole trying to act tough or like she’s “better” than anyone else. But it may just be the context I hear it from (alt/goth girls/wlw people)

Anonymous

#8 17w

Female narcissism has become so normalized that you see it as simply being strong and beautiful…

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Anonymous

#17 17w

How #17 looks irl

Anonymous

#25 17w

Ummmm no….. I know how shitty females are being treated by the world and if a women thinks she looks like a queen when she’s decked out in makeup, who the hell am I to tell her she’s not??? Also it’s typically not said in a bad way with me, more so a women twirling in a flowing black dress asking me if she looks like a goddess. So I think we are seeing two diff types of women in our lives

Anonymous

#25 17w

me when i don't know what narcissisism is

Anonymous

#4 17w

About as bad. He stole it from the organized-misandry Reddit page that’s openly intended as “redpill for women” (i.e. how they share tips on dating as sociopaths). Idk what kind of mind-game he thinks he’s playing by regurgitating it as a man

Anonymous

#12 17w

“I deserve this” “Manifest what you deserve”

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Anonymous

#25 17w

Dawg idek what your point is, but it's clear that it's stupid.

Anonymous

#4 17w

Can’t call me a liar tho

Anonymous

#25 17w

I can tho, and I can call you someone who has a six finger forehead, and prolly pays for yikyak plus

Anonymous

#4 17w

Sure you can, still not a liar

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Anonymous

#25 17w

If thats the lie you tell yourself to make yourself feel better, good for you.

Anonymous

#4 17w

Like the lies you have to make up to describe me to make YOU feel better?

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Anonymous

#25 17w

Hey now, if you take out your reading glasses you will see prolly, which is short for probably. Reading comprehension really didn't stick with you in school?

Anonymous

#4 17w

“Reading comprehension” Then you imagine me as a 6finger forehead and yikyak premium buyer? Yeah something like you can’t say anything about reading comprehension

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Anonymous

#25 17w

Its clear that you never really played on the playground if you can't read between the lines kiddo