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If a guy is hot and cold (for example hits you up but never plans to meet & always asks how ur doing with no flirting for months), why might they act that way?
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Anonymous 7w

That guy does not give a shit about you Dont even try to interpret his actions

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Anonymous 7w

He’s been doing this for MONTHS, if she entertains it it could go on for years or whenever he decides to stop She’s wasting her time and stopping herself from finding someone that actually likes her and is willing to do whatever to be with her. If she wants to make sure she’s not making the wrong decision she’s more than welcome to ask him on a date But if he doesn’t do anything after that or ask her on a second date then we have our answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Please don’t listen to this. There are probably several things that could cause this. They may just be afraid of making the wrong decision, wanting you to do it for them.

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