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Don’t know if I should tell my bf or not. Nothing happened, but I still just feel guilty
He’s one of my best friends so I felt comfortable with this, but my other friend(m&gay) was sitting next to us and this morning he told me that my other friend (the one holding me) likes me a lot. I feel awful bc I don’t want to lead him on, but I also…
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Anonymous 4w

on the other hand if you do tell him, you have to be prepared to let that friend go because as far as I know any man who can draw boundaries healthily, won’t be upset but will ask that you stop talking to him

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Anonymous 4w

if you don’t tell him it’s a lie by omission kinda and the fallout will be worse because you kept it from him. Then it turns into a question of why did you keep it from then that snowballs into a big argument.

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Anonymous 4w

He held you, something happened

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Anonymous 4w

Girl duh tell your bf. Your male friend who was holding you likes you in a romantic way while you’re in a relationship. Like not trying to be rude but why tf would you not tell your bf

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