Ask Men on Sidechat | my bf has a house and his friends keep using it as an open pad to hangout at and invite whoever they want over (random girls) bc there’s no parents to restrict them. it really bothers me and makes me uncomfortable, what do i do/how can my bf tell them no?

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Ask Men 2w

my bf has a house and his friends keep using it as an open pad to hangout at and invite whoever they want over (random girls) bc there’s no parents to restrict them. it really bothers me and makes me uncomfortable, what do i do/how can my bf tell them no?

Anonymous 2w

“It makes me feel unsafe when your friends invite over random women I’ve never met”

Anonymous 1w

If those friends also live in the house then he can’t really do anything. But also what about it makes you uncomfortable, I don’t like hookup culture at all and I’m not supporting it, but it’s not your bf that’s hooking up and you can’t expect him to control his friends. If it’s just his house then throw all I said out the window and he has the right to set boundaries.

Anonymous

#1 2w

Alternatively, “I don’t want my home to be a fuck-motel”

Anonymous

#1 2w

the first one is good bc he’s a ppl pleaser!

Anonymous

#2 1w

they don’t live with him they still live with their parents and try to use his house, and i jus don’t like my bf being around random girls that i don’t know really ig it just makes me uncomfortable, and he’s just a people pleaser so he doesn’t want to say no so usually he makes me or his roommate say no, but sometimes his friends just come over and bring chicks over like it’s nothing

Anonymous

OP 1w

Ah people pleasers, I am one as well. Not sure how to help you but I wish the best.