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I’ve been told I’m unapproachable bc I wear all black and have black hair. That’s just how I am and express myself. Are they just trying to say I’m ugly/uninteresting to approach? Or is it actually intimidating??
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Anonymous 10w

Have to jump in here as another alternative woman: own your style!! The right man will appreciate you for who you are!

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Anonymous 10w

I think that the style gives off the vibe that you might not want to be approached instead of being intimidating

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Anonymous 10w

Ppl think any degree of alternative is intimidating

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Anonymous 10w

I personally wouldn’t approach but that’s only because I’d see you as too far out of my league. Alt women are hot as hell, idk what the guys you’re talking to are on

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Anonymous 10w

Nobody has ever decided not to approach a girl because she is wearing a certain color

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Anonymous 10w

Lean into the goth aesthetic if you already wear black

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