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sorry this is super long, but i really wanted y’all’s perspective on this…
6 upvotes, 6 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "sorry this is super long, but i really wanted y’all’s perspective on this…"
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Anonymous 8w

Only becomes a problem when the other person is ungrateful or the “as you should” kind of person

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Anonymous 8w

It’s definitely mentally draining but for the right person it’s worth it.

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Anonymous 8w

I mean, I definitely don’t want to be a slave to a partner. Both people in a relationship should be independently capable people and should both put effort towards the relationship imo. The exact dynamics are for each couple to discuss and compromise on what they’d prefer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

this^ 110 fold. i’d do it over and over again for my current gf, none of my ex’s tho, i’d do it for my 2 close ass bsfs, but tbh no one else in general

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

damn, now i feel like i have to be hyper independent so he doesn’t feel drained 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Nah, just be thankful and do things for him too

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