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why do men complain about blue balls when you can literally just jack off?

Anonymous 10w

Genius?

Anonymous 10w

Is that a frequent complaint? I think I experienced blue balls like once in my entire life

Anonymous 10w

guys it's not real. i promise you it's not real. ladies, it's the same feeling as edging. i PROMISE you, its not a thing

Anonymous 10w

Ok, in my late 20’s and for the probably tens of thousands of times I’ve gotten myself off, I’ve given myself blue balls maybe 3 times? Is it painful yes, however it involves actively edging yourself (vigorous physical stimulation) for probably 2 hours minimum before stopping cold turkey, and once you have it, cumming doesn’t fix shit; everything is just painfully sore like you got kicked there. Does bluebells suck ABSOLUTELY, are guys manipulating the topic to guilt trip folks 😔 also yes.

Anonymous 10w

i’ve had multiple men tell me it actually isn’t a thing that hurts. it’s a little uncomfortable but doesn’t hurt and isn’t as huge a deal as other people make it out

Anonymous 10w

Ive amputated five sets of balls

Anonymous 10w

when I get blue balls they hurt till the end of the day, and jacking off makes them hurt even more.

Anonymous 10w

Jacking off either doesn’t relieve the pain or sometimes makes them inflamed or more sensitive (not the good kind of sensitive)

Anonymous 10w

I’ve only had blue balls BECAUSE there was no ejaculation for a very long period of time, so idk really

Anonymous

#3 10w

Seems fake

Anonymous

#6 10w

It can ache

Anonymous

#7 10w

ache is different from hurt, no? either way i’ve never and wouldn’t ever intentionally blue ball my man

Anonymous

#9 10w

It’s real, I’ve experienced it like once in my entire life tho so it’s probably pretty rare

Anonymous

#5 10w

When aroused blood rush to genitalia in preparation for event. When event not occur blood wait, blood stay. When blood stay blood vessels get bigger. When blood vessels get too big, blood is visible and nerves get angry.

Anonymous

pirosnake 10w

Also blood looks blue under skin and thats why it’s called blue balls.

Anonymous

#9 10w

epididymal hypertension is 100% even if you haven’t experienced it yourself but yeah ejaculation alleviates most of the built up pressure

Anonymous

#14 10w

that and a shower i’ve found the few times i’ve experienced it bad enough

Anonymous

#5 10w

I’m just sharing my experience with it

Anonymous

#6 10w

I mean it does not feel good

Anonymous

#6 10w

Honestly if you’re just hanging out and not having sex it’s not really an intentional thing you can do unless you’re being seductive or something. I get blue balls even if I’m just cuddling (for more than a couple hours)

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Anonymous

freestyle 10w

😏

Anonymous

#4 10w

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#6 10w

I’ve had it once and it actually was pretty painful, more than just an ache. I’ve had convos with some friends too where they agreed how painful it is lol

Anonymous

#3 10w

What’s the possible scientific explanation for there being a difference between jacking off and having sex in terms of alleviating blue balls?

Anonymous

#5 10w

Idk, I just know a good fuck session is the only cure

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Anonymous

#11 8w

I got it like 20 times back when I had a gf it hurt pretty bad (no idea what period cramps feel like or how bad they hurt but I’d imagine this is the closest possible male equivalent). More of a dull constant ache than sharp pain tho