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Ask Men 23h
Yeah and my hot take is that men don’t actually physically like sex as much as everybody thinks, and that half of the “good feeling” is j validation from other dudes about how hot the girl was/social conditioning since literal childhood
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Anonymous 19h

If men don’t like sex then why is pornography and masturbation so prolific in society

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Anonymous 20h

Are you a man? If not, then how could you possibly know what we feel. I couldn’t tell you what a period feels like. So why do get to tell me how I feel? If you are, then there’s 8 billion other guys and rest assured you don’t get to speak for us no matter how justified you think you opinions are.

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Anonymous 9h

Not a question

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Anonymous 23h

It’s more like as a guy there is pressure on you to get laid bc that’s the big thing in dude culture

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Anonymous 2h

Scientifically speaking women actually do feel much stronger orgasms than we do so I don’t know why we’re the ones obsessed with it

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Anonymous 22h

Not a question. Go wokescold somewhere else 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

And that’s the root of it all imo. Little boys are conditioned to think that as soon as they turn 12, their entire value is built on women liking them. You have dads bringing their sons to hooters, older brothers showing them porn etc. Boys then view women as someTHING that they need for status and worth rather than someONE who is a literal human being with their own wants and needs. It’s so pushed on yall that I think some of you don’t even realize that it’s not all that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I don’t know about that second example. Thats very illegal.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 23h

Why u acting like it isn’t a common thing? Did you not grow up with brothers? They discover porn from a friend at school and put their lil bro onto it when he gets older. And taking little boys to hooters is legal at any age

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

You being unable to comprehend something ≠ woke

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Uhh if any of my friends introduced their little brothers to porn I’d punch em

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

I agree except for you saying 8 billion other guys, Cuz what. That is not how gender distribution works

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I know the first example was a thing, a very uncommon one, but I knew it was a thing. The second one is absolutely not legal and calling it rare would still be generous. Did something happen to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

Nah, 8 billion men and 300 million women. It’s your standard 80-3 gender ratio.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

4 billion I’m sorry that makes it so much more justifiable

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 2h

They reproduce by mitosis, we can’t keep up. they’re at the gates please arm the cannons

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

It may not be enough. Ready your key.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

Uh, I grew up one of 6 brothers and no that’s not a normal thing. You need to be explaining this shit to a therapist, not here.

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