Ask Men on Sidechat | Boyfriend said he masturbates to girls that he's seen/ knew in the past. Am I wrong to feel hurt about this??? I feel like if he said celebrities/porn or something I wouldn't care as much because he doesn't interact with them in real life.

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Boyfriend said he masturbates to girls that he's seen/ knew in the past. Am I wrong to feel hurt about this??? I feel like if he said celebrities/porn or something I wouldn't care as much because he doesn't interact with them in real life.

Anonymous 4d

Yeah that messed up of him

Anonymous 3d

He’s doing it to your friends and family too

Anonymous 4d

If you’ve been doing that most of your adult life, it can be an addictive/difficult pattern to break. He probably loves you a lot but just struggles with lust. He isn’t aware that, this isn’t some harmless innocent thing. Mentally and spiritually he’s keeping those soul ties alive every time he engages in pleasuring himself to the thought of them. Might be helpful to remind him of the negative impacts of porn usage in general. It isn’t healthy.

Anonymous

#2 4d

Like because of what he’s doing, if he ever saw those people again or got a message from them his body will react with lust because he’s training himself to view them that way.