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Why do men get angry at other men for treating women nicely? Like with the “simp” stuff and all the other shaming men do when guys are in love with a woman
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Anonymous 1w

I’ve only ever seen people get made fun of when it’s for a girl that isn’t interested in them and they still are trying

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Anonymous 1w

Uhh there’s definitely alot more nuance to that than you’re making it out to be😭

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Anonymous 1w

That’s not what simp means

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Anonymous 1w

Being a simp and just being nice to women cause you’re genuinely a good person are vastly different

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Anonymous 1w

We worry about them. We know they’re gonna get hurt really really bad it’s a little scary/painful to watch, especially if you’ve been there yourself (most of us have) It comes from a place of compassion/empathy, really

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Anonymous 1w

Nope

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Anonymous 1w

Cause they want to be treated like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

What? I’m just asking a question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well men don’t do that for treating women nicely they only call out their friends for being simps if they’re ACTUALLY being simps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It might not be your experience, but I have watched men bully and mock another men for treating a random woman with respect and kindness. I don’t understand why some men do that? And if you don’t have experience with that it’s totally fine, I’m just wondering if there are any guys that do that could provide insight on why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No see this is the thing we only ever do that to guys that are doing the very most for a girl who does not deserve it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

See now that’s justifiable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I mean Ive heard some men use it to make fun of a guy just for being chill with a woman existing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

He wasn’t actually being a simp by definition, yet he was mocked and called one regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And this is a problem?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Yes it’s a problem that men are bullying other men just bc they pleasantly interacted with a random woman he doesn’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Yeah, I’m wondering why men call other men simps just for being nice to women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You call that bullying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Well you weren’t there so idk why you would get to say if it’s bullying or not😭 it was definitely bullying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Calling someone a simp is NOT bullying lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Well they called him a simp and a bitch and we’re laughing in his face so like

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Some men just hate women and hate to see them be treated nicely. The reverse is also true. Unfortunately there are just bad people out there

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