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What are you most afraid of when your daughter hits puberty?
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Anonymous 1w

Vapes

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Anonymous 1w

Her not growing into a 6’3 future wnba start

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Anonymous 1w

That she will be taken advantage of by some shitty man

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Anonymous 1w

she'll be rebellious and maybe make some dumb decisions

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Anonymous 1w

weird question

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Anonymous 1w

That some doctor might try to convince her to get on oral birth control that’s supply chain is sourced in India/China and it will alter her hormones to start dating effeminate men with unearned tattoos who will likely attempt to abuse her and thus, I’ll be honor bound to break those effeminate little legs of the men she was roofied into dating.

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Anonymous 1w

That she’ll get pregnant in high school by some dude that’s failing 10th algebra 😖😖😖😖

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

But that fear exists pre puberty as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Why do you say that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Booooo stop being boring and answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

😦

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

😐🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Listen I’m not going to say birth control is the best medication, they do push it on most women just as a bandaid solution for a multitude of problems. BUT, it does enable women to have full control over their body and menstrual cycle and when taken correctly won’t have any negative affects. I’d love to see your sources on the whole women who take birth control date “effeminate” men thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Bc it kinda sounds like the whole “women are peeing out lots of estrogen which is getting into the water supply and turning the freaking frogs gay”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Look around you. Ask around you every time you see it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

So I am a women who was on birth control, they say your type in man does change but for me I went for more traditionally masculine athletic men. I’m usually into emo nerdy boys so like

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

While it’s fair to say birth control might shift one’s preferences towards more feminine men, it can also do the opposite. Birth control and hormones are weird like that my friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Interesting… IUD? All my exes were IUD or not on BC at all. (Most people would consider me trad athletic) I don’t believe the IUD type is hormonal altering, at least the kind they were on.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

would u ask the same question abt a son?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Absolutely there’s valid emotions on raising any child. But I didn’t need to ask both to ask one. An ask men’s form is to learn perspectives from a large community on any topic including this. Hearing an answer about raising a son and those fear that might come with it does not answer this question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

No I was on pill birth control

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

And yes the iud type is hormone altering

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

That’s an even more interesting outlier in the data. If you don’t mind me asking, which brand/type of pill?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Bruh your personal experience is not a data set

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yeah well enough can be faked with AI, the news, academia, and government have lied enough that that’s now the best way to map the world. Data collect with your own eyes and ears. Live how you want. I’ll keep doing this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

And if you don’t want curious people to be disinclined to hear what you’ve observed, you probably shouldn’t attempt to dissuade them when they find what you’ve found to be interesting.

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