And your not in the wrong

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there’s a lot of red flags here. none of us should be shamed for practicing safe sex. it’s the same energy as someone who gets offended by the concept of a prenup. it doesn’t mean you think you’re going to get a divorce, but it’s important to protect yourself because you can trust someone fully & still get stabbed in the back. he’s mad because he doesn’t want to wear a condom, it’s that simple.

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STD or no STD, he is not safe for you

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He reminded me that I have an IUD and said he’d pull out, so I told him the real reason was bc I don’t want to risk getting an STD. He got visibly offended and asked if I thought he was cheating on me. I basically told him that Idk what he’s doing and that I’m not willing to take that risk for anyone.He said it was shitty that after 8 months together I still don’t trust him to be loyal, especially since he’s never given me a reason to think he’s cheated.

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He also said I was treating him like a random hookup instead of my like my bf. I told him I thought arguing over sex was stupid and that if he didn’t like my boundary, there wasn’t really anything to discuss. he said he didn't care about the sex anymore and that it was the principle of what I was saying. After that he left, and we haven't spoken in 3 days. Was I in the wrong? can someone help me see it from a guys POV? and is there anyway I can resolve this? I really do love him

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I get the STD thing, but not taking to you for three days over it is a gtfo sign, and if this was a shouting match you that’s the second one. I get not wanting to use a condom but a boundary is a boundary and must be respected.

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Honestly break up with him because being offend of a boundary u set

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