Anonymous #1 4w

Wdym

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Anonymous OP 4w

Most men don’t do this, the few that do probably do it to a lot of people, and don’t see why it’s an issue

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Anonymous #2 4w

I unadded him dw!

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Anonymous OP 4w

Good he’s a fucking creep

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Anonymous #1 4w

Every guy I’ve talked to has asked me and out of all of them (I have a lot of failed talking stages like 19 lol) 2 excepted “no” as an answer

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Anonymous OP 4w

And those people are perpetually single and looking for casual stuff lol, Hu/casual culture (from anecdotal experience) is around half the population but it just circles and circles around and not really intersecting with the other half

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Anonymous OP 4w

Pro tip: quit having talking stages

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Anonymous #4 4w

Hey! That’s the goal actually!

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Anonymous OP 4w

I mean yeah the end goal of a relationship means no more talking stages, but that’s not what I meant. You’re not gonna get into a stable relationship if it started with a talking stage. Good relationships don’t start with a “talking stage” because the talking stage doesn’t exist

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Anonymous #4 4w

Like if you genuinely still think “talking stages” exist, getting over that should be what you strive for with your goal of not having talking stages

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Anonymous #4 4w

I totally understand what your saying, my thing is that a lot of guys I talk to always says “they are not ready to commit” or that they just want to be fwb I guess by my logic I’d call that a talking stage?

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Anonymous OP 3w

I think that’s kind of what 4 is saying. If they’re just wanting fwb and not wanting to commit at any point, they’re probably not a great place to look for something solid in the long run.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Accepted**

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