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Do we fr get emasculated by women being more powerful/dominant? I dont mean during sex but in general. Like im a lesbian and so many men take issue with me being strong or knowledgable about "masculine" things
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Anonymous 4w

Not really. Most men I know would actually enjoy women being interested in the stuff they are interested. My experience has been women are belittling about things we enjoy so someone who is actually interested let alone invested it refreshing.

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Anonymous 4w

I have a lot of “male dominated interests” and I’ve dealt with the exact same reaction as the one you are saying.

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Anonymous 4w

An i dont mean this in accusatory way. Im just curious where it comes from cuz im not very tuned in with male spaces and culture

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Anonymous 4w

Nah, imo strong women are cool whether they’re stronger than me or not idrc

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Anonymous 4w

No lol

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Anonymous 4w

Lesbians make me feel more masculine there like wimpy men

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I honestly get this too as a masculine lesbian which is wild. Misogyny rlly affects all of us :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Someones emasculated

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Why are you creating a fake competition in your mind 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I dunno I feel like all guys kinda size up other guys in there heads at least I do. And if I size up a lesbian there just weak makes me feel better.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m sorry your comment made you mad it wasn’t intended that way👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Literally nobody does this big dawg 🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Babe this statement does not help your cause it makes you sound very insecure about your masculinity lmao wdym size up 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

“I feel better about being stronger than a woman” woah really impressive

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Men do I mean normal men maybe not the type u find on this app with one hive mind and nose piercings 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I mean yeah that’s the breakdown I don’t know why everyone is so mad. The question was asking about feeling emasculated by masculine women and I was stating I don’t because naturally there a lot weaker. I seriously don’t get why everyone’s so mad

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

They’re*

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Who is mad i was just saying u sound insecure when u say that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Which is an obvious deflection trying to insult me because I upset you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It’s not a flex to feel stronger than a woman and it’s also don’t know why you’re talking about the nose piercing thing, most people with those tend to be more emotionally mature

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Bro i do not care about a mans misogynist opinion of me in the first place much less some yikyak incel 💔 ngl i was just baiting u to get mad. Ofc im not masculine like a man because im not a man lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

No dude, normal men do NOT do that 💀 you are not normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

You used the wrong one earlier too and didn’t catch it when you were talking about sizing up lesbians btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Btw I’m not even talking about it being misogynist or whatever or not, I’m just letting you know literally nobody else does this. I think it’s actually even less uncommon for people who work out to do this in a “sizing up” type of way because they don’t need to size someone up to feel good about themselves. The most other men will think if they see someone strong is “oh cool, that dude’s pretty jacked”, not “heh, I’m stronger” or “omg I’m weaker than him, he could throw me around”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

The 2nd one is lowk kinda fruity so if that’s how you compare yourself to people maybe you’ve got some self exploration to do idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

And that’s if they even pay attention to the dude’s strength. Most people don’t even do THAT 😭 the most that normal people will notice about another dude’s appearance would be things like a neat hairstyle, cool outfit like a cool jacket, etc.

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