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Ask Men 10w
Men say they won’t approach due to fear of being creepy but then will stare into our souls. That is 100% worse
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Anonymous 10w

Problem?

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Anonymous 10w

I don't do either

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Anonymous 10w

I completely get where you’re coming from and also I agree, and I’ve had some unwanted intense staring from girls too and it feels really weird, but I don’t wanna overstate it can be super hard to approach someone. It took me such a long time to get over, and now it’s really easy, but it was A LOT OF WORK

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Anonymous 10w

Unfortunate

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Anonymous 10w

Like deadass i rather you just ask

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Literally. If you are respectful it’s fine, staring like I’m the only girl you ever seen is not

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

For all of those people still working up the courage to make a move I suggest glancing over playfully rather than starting, with a smile as well. It’s not as creepy as a stare, and it can give you a sense of how she feels as well if she reciprocates it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

But at the end of the day somebody’s gotta say something 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w
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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

It is a lot of work! I’ve been working on it myself as well

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