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Asking all men: How do u truly see lesbians? I came out to my guy friends and all of a sudden they’ve started calling me “dude/bro/my man” and I wonder if they consider me a guy or guy-adjacent now? Idk just curious since I’m still very feminine lol
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Anonymous 1d

You like tits, I like tits, that’s common ground, let’s be friends. That’s pretty much the whole thing

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Anonymous 1d

Tbh I treat all my platonic female friends the same as guy friends except for some different boundaries

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Anonymous 1d

As a bisexual

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Anonymous 1d

I hate lesbians ngl (This is a joke! I’m gay too lmao)

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Anonymous 5h

I try to treat all my friends the same, which does sometimes come out as treating them like dudes

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Anonymous 17h

I feel bad for yall. Not all of you, but many. Reason for this is the results of an ongoing study where the data currently collected revealed a large portion of lesbians were abused by a man at a young age and seek the power/position to never have that happen again. A near equal amount were given specific kinds of birth control for absurd things like “acne” in developmental years which appears to have altered their hormones in such a way to be attracted to women. Additionally, domestic 1/2

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Fair enough 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

^ this

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

2/2 violence is highest among lesbians couples. Saw this play out first hand with my sister and cousin. It was never hand to hand, once with a wine bottle, once with a kitchen knife, but both were alarmingly similar cases.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

Just so we’re clear, your sister and cousin are both lesbians and in relationships. But not with each other, right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

You don’t understand stats one bit. The stats about violence came from lesbians who said they’ve experienced violence from men. Not their partner. Domestic abuse is WAYYYY higher in straight relationships. You are regurgitating false information. Please look into the actual stats. Additionally, being lesbian has no causation. Being straight doesn’t have a causation either. It’s not a mental illness that needs to be cured. You try to sound all cocky and smart when you’re really j a dumbass lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

Correct.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h
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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

Because tons of lesbians dated men prior without realizing they’re lesbian. In a society where women are taught that you’re not supposed to enjoy sex with men and other harmful conditioning, it’s way harder for gay women to realize. It’s easy for gay men to realize because they don’t have the expectation of sex not feeling good. Your ss literally says it. “In their lifetime.” Lesbian women are abused by men at higher rates prior to entering their lesbian relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

You are single handedly harming lesbians and women with this false stat. Thats why your screenshot shows bi women having even higher abuse rates because their sexuality actually includes an attraction to men where relationships with men are more likely. And since a lot of lgbt have trauma, they’re drawn to abusive people. That’s why straight couples have the least amount

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

Take it up with the AI, I didn’t draw the data. My observation is fractional compared to what was available to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

Also don’t project yalls harming each other onto me. I’ve probably saved more lesbians lives than total lesbians you know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13h

You’re not looking into the data that ai presented. You have to actually look into it and you’ll realize why it’s higher. LGBT is inherently traumatizing to be in this world. Trauma victims are drawn to abuse. That is why before entering lesbian relationships, women have experienced bad behavior from males prior. My gf had full on boyfriends before realizing she was actually just lesbian. Anybody with a brain knows that men commit 99.9% of rape, murder, and abuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13h

Weird. Your claim hasn’t been the case for our ongoing study at all. AI’s claim is at least in the ballpark.

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