Anonymous #1 14w

i really is a man thing tho

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Anonymous #3 14w

Not really! Vast majority of men are not like this.

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Anonymous #2 14w

I did 🤝

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Anonymous #1 14w

Statistics would not support this statement.

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Anonymous #4 14w

Actually they do support that statement.

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Anonymous #4 14w

Provide them then.

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Anonymous #12 14w

Jesus

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Anonymous #7 14w

Please stop using small dick as an insult 😭

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Anonymous #3 14w

Um what’s stopping another woman from saying this?

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https://share.google/aimode/9dQIZEAZxxg55sFyU

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Anonymous loverboy 14w

Um

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Anonymous loverboy 14w

Not all men, but always a man.

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Anonymous loverboy 14w

Also, you’re absolutely one of those evil fucks. OP just got told to get r*ped and you’re trying to argue that SHE’S just as bad as HIM? Nah, you’re definitely on a list.

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Respectfully, if u can’t decipher that the vast majority of men are not like this, and have virtually no control over the ones who are, then u will alienate our allies

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Anonymous #1 14w

IMO it should be a conversation about how we can spot potential harmful people and not harbor them together (unfortunately happens in many different communities!)

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I am appalled from them, but they didn’t dm me so there isn’t much I can do about it unfortunately. I have no power to report them, however when generalizations come in it only widens divides

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Anonymous #1 14w

I’m not really upset, it’s just a framing that leads to toxic and unhealthy mindsets

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Ok bro u clearly have no desire to have a conversation

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Ur the one downvoting and mad 😭it’s a toxic mindset that is not good. People that dm OP are not savable, but OP is someone with a good heart and can learn!! I’ve been sexually battered multiple times (and yes this is not nearly what many women go through I’m not comparing) unfortunately, I do not say “why do women” in ask women cause ik that’s not going to help me and will only create divide. Because there are widespread problems and when there are generalizations it actually doesn’t do what is

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Anonymous #1 14w

Intended

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I mean it’s just u downvoting me but ok lol. Perhaps actually ask questions and work for solutions rather than say a generic phrase that literally just causes divide 👍I would gladly be on board

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Ok yes exactly we are getting somewhere! I think we can find a way to both offer empathy but also point out how this thinking can become unhealthy + not helpful we can find ways to both point out the issues and also not generalize to people (in any direction!)

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I agree! But I’m not talking about equal weight, I’m saying how in order to build a coalition of men and women to fight a patriarchal society (which most men are victims in) putting away potential allies is not what I want

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I unfortunately don’t have many men I interact with! I only really interact with my friends who are women or nonbinary 😭

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Anonymous #1 14w

Hmm I can see both sides and I’m glad we’re having this conversation

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Anonymous #1 14w

But in the future I will keep in mind? Idrk when it may come up but yea

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I mean if they do sometimes, and when they do I may pull them aside after and say how while I recognize their experiences, phrases like that can sometimes make me feel “othered” or “tokenized” when it’s just me.

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Anonymous #12 14w

No literally like I’m upvoting her comments I think it actually is a good convo!

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Anonymous #1 14w

And honestly my friends are great and we have found a great balance with jokes and banter and also feeling included

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We have a great relationship and we have mutual understanding and vulnerability from my bad experiences with women and theirs with men and I am very greatful for them!

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Anonymous loverboy 14w

i’m going to forever haunt you and put spells on you because you are genuinely a very rude and miserable person maybe i’ll put a therapy spell on you

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Anonymous #1 14w

Not all men but usually a man

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Anonymous #1 14w

Not always men, but NEVER A WOMAN

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Anonymous #27 14w

There do be some…

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Anonymous #7 14w

I’m confused, this could very well be another woman, why’re we automatically assuming it could be a dude?

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Anonymous #15 14w

Did u mean to reply to 27?

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Anonymous #27 14w

Also no. 27 I know for a matter of fact there are women like this because I’ve met them, women aren’t some paragon

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Anonymous #7 14w

Yeah

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