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Can someone please explain the phenomenon of me getting hit on more when I look messier than when I feel put together?
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Anonymous 3w

I would guess it’s because you look more human and normal

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Anonymous 3w

Maybe you look more carefree or approachable

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah this makes sense thanks

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