Anonymous #1 12w

It’s more of trying to give off correct vibes lol I’m not worried about it😂 cute or sexy it’s a fair choice. If I’m dating a man I’m definitely not worried about it

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Anonymous OP 12w

What impression of you does he already have

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Anonymous #1 12w

All I know is he either called me cute or beautiful and asked our other coworkers to find out if I’m single or not lol

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Anonymous OP 12w

Maybe you want something that says your single

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Anonymous #3 12w

Nah I used to be like that but sometimes a girl wants to be pursued ya know

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Anonymous OP 12w

🙄

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Anonymous OP 12w

I want to be pursued too as a guy, sometimes you don’t have a choice

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Anonymous #4 12w

Even if all his friends are saying he would feel weird if I asked him? I promise I’m forward enough to show my interest. I bring him snacks or drinks for our shifts(he’s the only one I do it for) I get him little gifts if I see something small he likes. I always go out of my way (in an obvious way) to hang out with him when we aren’t busy work wise. Personally I think that’s showing plenty of interest.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Your friends sound like really toxic gossipy white girls

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Anonymous #6 11w

My friends?

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Anonymous OP 11w

Oh my bad I misread that

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Anonymous #6 11w

I more asked his friends bc I want to avoid making him potentially uncomfortable and they obviously know him better than I do lol is that not the right move?

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Anonymous OP 11w

I think so. But if he doesn’t get the hints then you might want to just tell him directly but in private

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Anonymous OP 11w

I’m really sorry that I misread your comment.

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Anonymous #6 11w

It’s alllll good

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Anonymous OP 11w

Did his friends explain why he’d feel weird if you asked him?

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Anonymous #7 11w

They say he’s been trying to work on his confidence and he would probably interpret me asking him as a lack of faith in him. There’s a lot more in depth details but it’s not like I’m in any particular rush to be official, I more am just wanting him to know I’m interested in more than hooking up vibes

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Anonymous OP 11w

Hmmm i mean wouldn’t you pursuing him increase his confidence though? Idk i mean as a girl too though i know these guys say they want girls to pursue them but i feel like when we do our value almost drops to them subconsciously

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Anonymous #7 11w

Apparently the interest im showing is building it a bit every day but he’s also told them he really wants to ask me out so

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Anonymous OP 11w

Yeah in that case I’d let him do it. As for the swim thing just wear whatever you feel the most comfortable and confident in. Bikinis don’t inherently mean you’re for the streets unless it’s a crazy looking one lol

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