Say that was a crazy night huh? Especially the chat on the ride home, I didn’t realize so many are so casual about cheating or encouraging each other to cheat? See what she says

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but was it because she disagreed or because I was in the car? The whole situation is messy. we met after hooking up at a party, she and her group is very attractive and outgoing,but she’s always been open about where she goes. I’ve never had a reason to doubt her, but seeing her friends treat cheating like nothing (even encouraging one of them to hookup with a guy they met in there bc her “bf is ugly and she’s in her prime”)

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makes me wonder if she’s ever been involved in convincing or WAS the one being convinced. How do I even bring this up considering the fact that they were all shitfaced? With me knowing there’s a chance she cheated that night, or was influenced in the past is changing how I see our relationship.

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She hangs out with cheaters so she is at least ok enough to condone the behavior for others

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I can’t help you but all I can say is this generation of women is utterly cooked

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As a woman, I am in complete shock. I’m sorry you had to experience that. I would be extremely uncomfortable in that situation too.! I would say have a one on one talk with her. Say something like, “I want you to know I care about you so much, but there’s something that I’ve been thinking about a lot…”

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If you’re holding out for a woman who’s NOT friends with (with all due respect) a bunch of bops, then you’re gonna be single for a LONG time (i.e. forever) Then again, I’m not saying that’s necessarily a bad thing or that your gf isn’t cheating. It’s an inherent risk of being in a relationship and as a guy those odds are against you and yeah, you just don’t have a reliable way of knowing. You kinda have to either live with that or detach yourself

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As a girl… none of my friends would ever do that. You are who your friends are, they reflect and shape you

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