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maybe a dumb question but how can i tell if the general male population thinks im ugly?
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Anonymous 5w

The goal isn’t for the general population it’s for the people you would vibe with imo

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Anonymous 4w

ask a guy friend or deadass just a random guy at a party who you don’t care about if you really care that much, bc you need someone’s physical honest opinion not ppl online who can’t see u

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Anonymous 4w

Go up to 10 guys over the next month and ask. The three that don’t doge the question or obfuscate will give you your answer.

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Anonymous 5w

Why does it matter what we think ?

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Anonymous 5w

Send pics

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 5w

because i am plagued with this thing called heterosexuality and want someone to think im attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

There are more people attracted to you then you will ever hope to meet in your lifetime. You can control aspects of your presentation like physique and fashion, but being ugly/pretty is out of your control. Just gotta put your head down, work on being the baddiest version of yourself, and pursue the people you want. I promise you if you do that you will have a bf or whatever you want romantically

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 5w

I have worked on myself and unfortunately it still hasnt worked, im not looking to change myswlf or anything i just wanted to know what people think of me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i dont NEED a boyfriend or even necessarily want one, i just want to know if im attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I mean you could compare how many people are interested in you vs other women, but that’s kinda silly because as long as you are very attractive to a niche of guys, you are an attractive person in a sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It has nothing to do with you being straight then lmfao. You have questionable self esteem and you’re looking for validation

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

probably

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

also i get compliments from girls a lot so if i was into girls i think i would feel less this way but idk

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