Anonymous OP 7w

I dont see whats wrong with looking if youre not posing as a girl in the comments

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Anonymous #1 7w

This was the post. In the comments someone said “actually my large family is great”, and that comment got downvoted and the reply was about how it’s “unsettling” and something about pregnancy kinks, and that comment got upvoted 😭

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Anonymous #1 7w

that sentiment is NOT universal lol I was a Girl Talk post or something and the post was joking about how boys can’t read (that Girl Talk is for girls). That’s a simple harmless joke, haha, all good. So I posted a comment saying like “I’m a guy and sometimes it just pops up on my feed and I don’t realize it’s Girl Talk”. And some girl was replying like “holy hell, why can’t you FUCKS just leave us alone. This is OUR space. Learn to read. We don’t FUCKING WANT YOU”. Like damn

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Anonymous #3 7w

It’s okay to want a female only community, hell I wish we had a male only community that wasn’t overrun with horny gay guys. But being that rude to a guy is completely unnecessary and part of the reason I think that group is a hellhole

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Anonymous #2 6w

Based familymaxxing

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Anonymous #2 6w

Lol I was the second of 8 kids in my family. No twins, no divorces, just two parents who got married and wanted a big family

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Anonymous #5 6w

I’m just curious, because I’m an only child so it’s hard for me to comprehend what it’s like, did you enjoy having a bigger family? Did you feel you had more support with many siblings or do you think it made growing up more challenging?

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Anonymous #2 6w

Both, in different ways. It was never lonely, but also there was no privacy. Lots of things that other people just had for themselves, had to be shared between us. You always had people to have hang out with and have fun with, and were also always at each others’ throats. We were basically our own best friends.

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Anonymous #2 6w

It’s also safe to say that being on the older end I got a different experience than some of my younger siblings. My parents started basically straight out of college, so when I was little they were still pretty young, had less disposable income, got more individual attention because there were less of us and they were less burnt out and new-parent stricter. Later on when there were more of us we were stronger financially but they were more spread out time and energy-wise.

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Anonymous #2 6w

There was a lot of shit that I feel they were stricter about when I was young which by the time of my younger siblings they just gave a lot less fucks about. They also just had less time and energy to spare for things like mediation between us, so to a large extent we were essentially forced to learn to work out our own problems ourselves instead of trying to go to them. There was also a lot of onus on us the older siblings to look out for and set examples for the younger siblings.

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Anonymous #2 6w

All that said, for a lot of the ways it was challenging, I feel like growing up with those challenges helped better prepare me for life, and made me appreciate a lot of things I might’ve otherwise taken for granted.

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