
Hey buddy, i see what you're saying but by this logic, all women should all hate or be terrified of men. Since men have the stereotype of being more violent and getting angry. Just bc a stereotype exists doesn't mean we should approach individuals with those in mind, much less make jokes abt it.
that's what im trying to encourage. saying "stereotypes exist for a reason" just enforces more harmful narratives for everyone involved. you shouldn't assume something about someone just bc they fall in a specific category or group. it will just further encourage the stereotype to be true, "everyone sees me as ______ so might as well be _______" instead of taking the effort to see someone for who they are
Is it so hard for you to be funny all on your own, you have to joke about peoples traumatic experiences? That just made lose the little respect I had for you. Although don't know why i'm surprised since you started this conversation saying most women are terrified and hate men, when thats just not true.