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how do i stop being in love with my boy best friend ?
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Anonymous 9w

Oof

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Anonymous 9w

Do you know he’s not in love with you? Why do you want to stop?

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Anonymous 9w

If spending time with them reminds you why you feel in love with them, then you need separation and time. It hurts like hell, but it will let you move on and give you a chance to find someone who might actually feel that way about you.

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Anonymous 9w

start thinking really hard about everything you don’t like about him and all his red flags or beige flags you don’t like. It’ll be enough to friend zone him.

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Anonymous 9w

More importantly, WHY would you stop? You’re throwing away something others would kill for

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Anonymous replying to -> partyhat360 9w

i confessed my feelings and he doesn’t feel the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

he doesn’t feel the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

he has LOTS of red flags and i’m trying to hold onto that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Oooh, yeah in that case you gotta do what #4 said and you gotta give yourself some space to let those feelings go away. I’ve been in your shoes once and you just gotta give it some time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

we’re both on summer break rn so ig that’s our separation. should i continue when we get back?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

If you’re not over it. It’s kinda up to your judgement, do you feel like you could be just friends and not be in agony from wishing it were more?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

i feel like i can handle most of it but whenever he brings up girls i wanna strangle him. or sometimes i can get a little possessive and he’ll be like “you’re not my gf bro” like thanks for reminding me 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Oooh, yeah, he can’t be doing that. He doesn’t owe you a chance with him, but as a friend he does owe it to you to be just a little sensitive to your feelings. You can tell him point blank to keep his bop lore to himself, that’s not a lot to ask

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

to be honest i tell him abt the guys im with but the difference is he doesn’t like me so he won’t get jealous. but you’re right, i should just tell him to stop

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