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ive been seeing a guy recently. i’m like his first more srs girl he’s been seeing and his first girl he’s been intimate with, but not his first kiss or anything. it’s like making out, him kissing my boobs, and he fingered me once. he’s not my first guy
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Anonymous 2w

i’ve been intimate with. i had a weird hookup situation this year and i am still a virgin but i do have experience. the last time this new guy and i were intimate he was fingering me a little clumsy and i said ow and then he got scared and pulled out his fingers. and now he keeps saying he got scared and never wants to do it again. idk what to do. i just wish he had more experience. this is why i usually go for older guys too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Its fine. He’ll get the courage back. It’s like accidentally causing a dog to yelp. He never wants to cause that sound again.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 2w

he made it sound very final tho and it kind of upset me bc like. everything we’ve done benefits some aspect of him and he gets off and i just never have and i usually js have to deal w it myself after he leaves. i wish he tried a little more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Its not final.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

So why do you keep doing benefits with him if you never get off each time?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

its not to say i also don’t enjoy it its just he usually finishes from it and i dont. its still my job in a way to make sure he feels good too

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