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is it unreasonable to ask him to stop watching porn? we’re getting more serious and it would make our sex better
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Anonymous 1w

not unreasonable. he has a whole gf and still wants to watch mostly fake videos?

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Anonymous 1w

Im not gonna read the debate you had with 1 but I think you should try watch with him. Use it as a learning experience to see what each of you like. At some point he has a problem but that between him and you

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Anonymous 1w

It won't improve your sex life in any meaningful way unless he struggles with getting it up

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Anonymous 1w

no it’s not unreasonable. but he also has the right to decide he doesn’t want to stop. if that’s the case you’ll just need to decide if your expectations for your partner include a hard boundary around porn

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Anonymous 1w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Let him do what he wants

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

you sound 14

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

with a relationship comes compromise and boundaries. i feel like if you want a gf you cant just do whatever you want all the time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Why ask a question if you’re going to get offended by one of the two possible answers

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m not offended, i probably shouldn’t have said you sound 12 cuz that’s insulting tho. what do you think about what i said.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I think you sound kinda controlling tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

howso

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You’re telling him he’s not allowed to do something that he has the right to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

why does he have the right to watch porn like what innately gives him the right to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Cuz he’s a grown ass man that can do what he wants? And you’re just trying to restrict him from that and calling it a “compromise”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

asking him to stop watching porn so that sex is better for him isn’t taking away his rights. i think if he wants to be serious with me then there are things he’s gonna have to give up so that better things can be gained. whats wrong with that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’ve explained what I think is wrong with it. I gave you my answer, you don’t have to like it. It’s just weird that you’d ask for an opinion and then push back so much when someone gives it to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m not pushing back on your answer, i’m expanding my questions based on your answers. thanks for your feedback, its helped

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

So its ok if i a guy being more official with a girl look at other women having sex?

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