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what would you guys get your girlfriend for her 21st birthday and would it be a room diffuser lmk bc my bf got me one and I hate it I feel like he’s cheap asf
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Anonymous 5w

i mean, because you have stuff for your room to smell nice, he probably thought you would like a diffuser to have options. i understand being kinda upset about dinner though. but men are kinda dumb so a lot of the times you gotta tell them exactly what you want.

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Anonymous 5w

Why do you feel like it’s cheap? Either that or a cocktail shaker are all I can think of

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Anonymous 5w

Idk it depends on what she wants? I feel like a room diffuser and a nice dinner would be a great birthday gift tbh

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Anonymous 5w

I brought my gf to a nice cocktail bar with like a medicine/hospital theme. Hard to explain. Also got her a card that looked like an ID that you slide a picture in

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Anonymous 4w

I would probably take her out to dinner and buy her a drink. Something nice, soft, and fruity. Like a margarita or a piña colada

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

idk I’m his girlfriend and it’s my 21st birthday. I just wanted something more special we aren’t even going out to dinner anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Like a special necklace or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

yeah but I already have stuff for my room to smell nice and we aren’t going out to dinner, it’s all he got me. like do i have to send him the links for what i want for my bday next time? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes I would like that as a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

oh lord

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

that's not that big of an ask. i suck at gifts (and so does my gf), so we helped eachother by giving eachother suggestions and asking for feedback.

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