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I really want to succumb to suicide it’s been a thought on my head for the last 3 months
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Anonymous 1d

It will be better. Likely not soon, but with effort it will be sooner. You are worth so much more than you know, and there is so much more to this life than you have seen. Please call someone you love

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Anonymous 1d

Suicide is the easy way out don’t be another statistic put in the work and it will get better it might get worse before it gets better but it will get better

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Anonymous 1d

I lost my brother to suicide so if I could speak for your family I’d say please don’t. My world has been so dark ever since. And Mom is… please don’t. Somebody loves you.

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Anonymous 1d

You’re a light in somebody’s life

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Anonymous 1d

I have been there many many times. Truly I cannot stress enough that the world is a better place with you in it. If you make a single person smile a day or help someone complete a menial task, tho small to you it’s huge to them.

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Anonymous 1d

Promise that you will when you graduate or something, that’s what I did

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i can attest. i was not in a good spot 2 years ago and was suicidal, but im so glad i held on bc i now have a life that i want to live for. take small steps, and don't get mad at yourself for setbacks. as long as you have the will to make a better life, your ups and downs will still be an upward trend. and make sure to take care of your health (talking to someone, going on walks, eating well, cleaning up, socializing,etc)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

You deserve to see the other side of your mental illness and your loved ones do too. Something I started is a notes app in my phone “good things are happening to me all the time” and you just write down EVERY positive thing. My two most recent entries are “had a good BLT with avocado that I made” AND “the dentist told me I have nice teeth”. It doesn’t have to be deep existential stuff, but little things to remind you that as terrifying as it all seems right now, good things ARE happening to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Don’t be afraid to lean on your family and friends and use hotlines when you need.

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