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Ask Men 14w
Have u ever approached a girl but got respectfully rejected - just normal and polite. I feel like I get approached and normally turn them down and think I do it in a respectful way but I hear u guys don’t get turned down respectfully?
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Anonymous 14w

I’ve had mostly respectful experiences when I have been rejected though tbh it’s a bit rare. My friends (who consider themselves less attractive than me) have had mostly hurtful experiences when they’ve been rejected

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Anonymous 14w

Never approached a girl actually

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Anonymous 13w

It’s a mixed bag. I’ve had somebody legitimately really respectful, somebody who seemed respectful but still talks shit to this very day, and somebody who was pretty rude

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Anonymous 14w

Approached a random person or like someone I’ve met before

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Anonymous 14w

Did it twice and both times were disrespectful to say the least

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Anonymous 13w

Yes, it’s been a mix for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Either I suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I have asked someone I’ve known for a little bit out and gotten rejected respectfully, but I only asked her out cause I knew her vibe and was able to screen her to not be cruel. If it was a stranger I wouldn’t do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Fair

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

What happened?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Hmm

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

One of them she just laughed and told her friends. The other my friends did it for me without me knowing (so I kinda lied) and she ran away anytime she saw me after that. Both of them in high school. Never again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

High school everyones immature tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Not much more than in college I can tell you that much 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

What was respectful vs disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 21 year old, for starters, one is an adult… and no longer a child…

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