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Ask Men 3w

If you are saving yourself for marriage and dating others who do, can I ask is sexual compatibility important to you? getting married before u know if you're sexual compatible or not is a hard concept for me to grasp.

Anonymous 1w

Yes, sexual compatibility is important to me just like other areas of compatibility are important. Conversations about sex should be a must at the very least

Anonymous 2w

So for context I’m a second year medical student learning abt stuff similar to this rn. Sexual compatibility isn’t the be all end all for relationships. Generally speaking libido can be modified by lifestyle factors and medications, and if it’s other aspects such as a physical inability to engage in sexual activity with one’s partner, there are changes that can be made for both parties to increase life satisfaction.

Anonymous

#2 2w

On a personal note: if the only reason you’re deciding not to marry someone is because of sexual compatibility or the lack thereof, you should take a moment and really think about what marriage means to you and whomever you are wanting to be married to

Anonymous

#2 2w

sexual compatibility is still a super important thing for a lot of people and they shouldn’t be judged for that. sex is the highest form of intimacy and if that intimacy can’t be reached because of a lack of sexual compatibility that can create valid issues. i have no problem with people waiting till marriage and there are of course benefits but those who prefer to be sexually intimate prior to committing the REST OF THEIR LIFE to someone shouldn’t be judged for that.

Anonymous

#2 2w

Sexual compatibility is not just if your libidos match up

Anonymous

#2 2w

Yeah i'm with 3&4 here. Sex is important to me in my relationships. I don't wanna marry someone if we aren't compatible sexually, and its more than if our libidos align. I wanna make sure we are into the same things kink wise, and that i understand how to pleasure her.