Ask Men on Sidechat | how do I stop myself from turning into an incel? I had virtually 0 female interaction in college (despite my best attempts) and every conversation I try to have is drier than the sahara. I don’t know how to start conversations or hold them. What do I do?

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Ask Men 11w

how do I stop myself from turning into an incel? I had virtually 0 female interaction in college (despite my best attempts) and every conversation I try to have is drier than the sahara. I don’t know how to start conversations or hold them. What do I do?

Anonymous 11w

Keep your screen time low, stay off of twitter, discord, and Reddit

Anonymous 11w

i mean no interaction with women isn't how you become an incel, hating women for not interacting with you is

Anonymous 11w

Get into eastern philosophy.

Anonymous 11w

What you're describing sounds like social anxiety. Do you have issues with connecting and speaking go men as well? I would suggest you maybe speak to a therapist or psychiatrist, or read some books or novels by them. They are good resources to help you overcome your anxiety. To further help lead you away from incel behavior is to simply stop expecting romance or sex. It's not gonna magically change your life if you receive it.

Anonymous 11w

try making friends with women with zero romantic intention for now. you'll come to realize that they're far less different than men when it comes to socializing/communication. if you can learn to make friends with women comfortably, you'll be way more equipped and confident when you find the right woman. also, put urself in more environments where ur likely to interact with people. get your friends to go w/ you to bars, parties, hangouts, etc so that you can get introduced to more people by them

Anonymous 11w

Isn’t being a incel hating woman? If you don’t hate woman you’re good 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anonymous 11w

I don’t blame women for me being a useless chud. I only blame women for misandry

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Anonymous

#2 11w

try to better yourself and put yourself out there more and you'll be seen in a better way, but never let yourself believe it's women's fault they don't connect with you

Anonymous

#1 11w

Y’all can downvote but I spoke nothing except facts

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Anonymous

#1 11w

Are the facts that you’re a “useless chud,” you don’t blame women for that, but you do blame women for misandry? And when you say you blame women for misandry, do you mean women as a collective for misandry that exists in the world, or do you mean individual women when they are misandrist?

Anonymous

#4 11w

When y’all say “I hate men” (notice how “men” implies men as a collective), do you mean men as a collective or individual men?

Anonymous

#1 11w

When you say “y’all” do you mean all women are misandrists? That was the question you were asked.

Anonymous

#7 11w

Because there are very, very many women who say those exact three words, including very possibly yourself

Anonymous

#1 11w

You still didn’t answer the question.

Anonymous

#8 10w

It’s blaming women for your lack of success with women