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The way this is what basically every girl has to deal with. Like I am hunting for a man who will take my last name bc why should I have to buy into an old fashioned construct or miss out on passing on my last name when I’m the only one who can
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My girlfriend just told me that she wouldn’t take my last name if we got married what should I do
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Anonymous 3w

How bout you keep yours I’ll keep mine

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Anonymous 3w

You realize the guy has the same reasoning as you for why they would like to but if you aren’t anal about it I’m sure you can find guys who are fine with it

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Anonymous 3w

I’m not giving mine up under any circumstances because I’m the only person in my extended family who can pass it on

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Anonymous 3w

Hyphenating last names is the best option tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 3w

Nah I wanna have a unified last name. If men can demand it from women I can demand it from a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not demanding so you can’t either

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 3w

Well I’m not marrying you. I’m just saying if dudes can refuse to settle for a woman who won’t change their names I can do the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Hey I’m not saying he can’t want what he wants. I’m just saying it’s funny to see men complaining about something women grow up being expected to deal with

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Valid. Same

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