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why don't men dress more slutty?
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Anonymous 19w

The only one who will ever see me dress slutty is my future wife

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Anonymous 19w

No options, have you seen the men’s section

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Anonymous 19w

it’s not like girls ever approach so for me there’s no real reason

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Anonymous 19w

Dress slutty for women that all hate us? Right.💀

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Anonymous 19w

Men don’t dress slutty for validation. If a man wants attention he will dress up into something respectable like a suit. You’re projecting female behavior onto males.

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Anonymous 19w

I dress slutty but most don't because they don't have to/want to. It doesn't attract the same attention as it does for women. It attracts other men. It's almost like broadcasting that you're gay. Women may like looking at male bodies but we're all socialized to respond to familiar kinds of showing off and men just tend not to do it with their bodies.

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Anonymous 19w

I’m dressed slutty right now

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Anonymous 19w

Is there a reason to?

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Anonymous 19w

I bought a “woman’s” hoodie that’s slightly hoping it enhances my slutty appeal for men

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Anonymous 19w

Bro if there were no social stigma about what men could wear you wouldn’t catch me in a slutty outfit, you’d see my neurodivergent ahh in a full suit of medieval plate armor.

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Anonymous 19w

1. We don’t really care to be effeminate 2. There’s no market

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Anonymous 19w

What could a men wear to be slutty?

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Anonymous 19w

judging from what you think is ‘slutty’ in the comments, i wouldn’t wear that type of stuff bc i would come off as gay

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Anonymous 19w

since the comments r confused here r some examples of what im talking abt

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Anonymous 19w

Dont worry guys I’m working on it

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Anonymous 19w

5 inch inseam shorts work

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Anonymous 19w

Currently investing in henleys don’t worry

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Anonymous 19w

Defense mechanism. Filters out the wrong type of girl as potential partners.

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Anonymous 19w

We have self respect

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Anonymous 19w

My bf does thank goodness. I genuinely thought I was gay before I met him bc I just am not attracted to the way guys dress, style is EVERYTHING to me. But I do think the number one reason is our dumbass society associated it with being gay and there is this toxic fear of that ever happening most men have internalized. (And a lot of people DO assume my bf is gay, men and women, which is so disappointing) our society needs a rehaul about homophobia and toxic masculine attitudes in both genders

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Anonymous 19w

What reason do I have to?

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Anonymous 19w

The closest I’ll do is a crop top during the summer to play basketball

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Anonymous 19w

you mean to say a restaurant wouldn't let in this man who is entirely fully covered ?? sure maybe the ones in tank tanks but this???

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Unless if a sleeveless shirt and short shorts/boxers for bed are considered that anyway 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

Sleeveless shirt yes, boxers no

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

The mens shirt that shows the most skin is called a WIFE BEATER! Terrible marketing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 19w

henleys!! heeled boots!! skin tight clothing, the list goes on

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19w

period

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

why

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

there t definitely options

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19w

and you know this from your experience dressing slutty?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

yes to look hot?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

KING

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

dressing slutty ≠ effeminate

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

to look hot duh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

It often is or ig idk what’s slutty on men to women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

wearing low rise jeans and having ur waistband out is slutty, wearing guyliner, henleys, shirts with low collars or slightly cropped. short shorts and tank tops. clothes don't have gender silly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

The Wolverine isn’t gonna look as manly in a dress as he is in a tank top and jeans

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 19w

Is that not what she meant? I thought a suit was like the sluttiest thing a guy could wear. Man, they really got a whole other language huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

How is professional attire REMOTELY similar to a woman wearing a mini skirt

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 19w

..… In the sense it’s sometimes worn for the purpose of making the opposite sex horny?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

Reading the comments, when OP says men dressing slutty they mean SLUTTY as in like prostitution sheik.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

(not that there’s anything wrong with that ofc)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

I’m not putting out for these random women, plus I am 1) very self conscious and 2) don’t need to be eye candy for random women (no I don’t expect random women to dress slutty for dudes I think everyone needs to be wearing more clothes nowadays)

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 19w

I’ve never hired a male prostitute. Idek if I’ve even seen one, so I have no idea how they dress. Not suits, I’m gathering

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

i definitely think he would be manly 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

a suit can be slutty! suit with no top

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

nah i wanna look hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

i feel like if ppl r assuming your sexuality based on what you're wearing then those aren't the type of people you should be hanging around. clothes are clothes and they don't affect who you love! my first thought when i see a man with nail polish isn't "he's gay" it's "oh he likes his nails painted" and the same should apply to clothing. wear clothes you like and feel sexy in!

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 19w

what do you mean by this? idk why all the comments are talking abt other people and what it attracts?? do you not just dress for yourself and what you like to wear??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

do it for yourself king!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

also dressing slutty can improve self confidence, ik whenever i wanna feel better mentally i just look hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

what does that have to do with anything?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Right now I’m on a 100% cotton, wool, or linen kick cuz it feels gooooood. (Highly recommend trying it) And it’s not my idea but I like the verbiage: clothes tight enough people know I’m a man but loose enough to leave something to the imagination appear to be the winning combo. Leaves a proper positive surprise for any girl I may eventually sleep with if those clothes come off. As far as the filter/attraction thing goes 1/2

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 19w

2/2 I’ve dressed “slutty” in the past and while it showed I was a good time for the night (which is what some girls were looking for) it didn’t attract the type of girl who was open to even seeing that, and I mean this in the most humble way possible, I’m likely a very good long term investment as far as romantic relationships and commitment to family goes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

possibly the most revolting idea ive read this week💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

It often isn’t. You’re just clearly not comfortable in your own masculinity currently and clearly have some toxic thoughts there buddy. Seek a therapist, although i doubt you believe in therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

“I DONT WANNA BE SEEN AS GAY OH GOD. Nothing wrong with that tho” so what? Is dressing up gay? You have some masculinity insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 19w

Crazy ass assumption, sorry but I’m not wearing any traditionally feminine clothes. I just don’t like the style, doesn’t look cool to me. I have a pierced ear and painted nails if you really wanna know lmoa

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 19w

cleary you haven't been to europe

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 19w

this!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

i have and they dressed like humans over there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

OP have you considered maybe men don’t want to be perceived as slutty? Or that we don’t want to look like this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

I miss when grown ups would dress as grown ups and not 7th graders

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

You see I could never dress like this till I’m more fit and even then idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 19w

idk what your problem is with me or what 7th graders you've seen but this particular model is literally in fashion school or at least a fashion space, you can tell by the background. fashion is art, and all im asking is why do american men not see it that way. clearly the answer is due to insecurity and toxic masculinity. lots of these pictures r an average asian or european outfit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

thats fine ig wear whatever makes u comfortable im just saying im a woman who would like to see more men dressed in this way, its why i want to move to Europe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

part of why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Because we don’t like it! 😭 I’m telling you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

okay then don't be surprised when women aren't as attracted to you bc of your style! all im doing is trying to help you guys but if you don't believe me an actual women then go ahead and just dress boring and be miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

nah it's for all body types

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

We can be stylish and wear decent clothing without looking like we’re going to the tribute interviews with Caesar flickerman in the Capitol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

It is not gonna look as good on some body types at least to most people, let’s not be daft. Either way me personally I would not feel comfortable wearing it until I was more fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

im sorry but most of the outfits i chose are normal everyday outfits. if you want district one i can show u district one. this isn't remotely high fashion enough for you to be saying that. they are all dressed very casually. this is stylish and decent. if i saw someone dressed like any of them i'd probably compliment them and move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

These aren’t everyday outfits, a lot of restaurants ain’t gonna let you in or at least want you in dressed like these guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

this is just regular mens clothing lol

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 19w

where im europe specifically? really im talking more italian, and spanish. i also haven't been but i admire Tokyo fashion too. all of the example r like average outfits over there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

These are tuff for going out to bars and shit though

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 19w

tell that to number 1

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

i responded in a separate comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

This would be fine, also when doing an image make sure you reply instead of a new comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Right cuz I’m wearing a fishnet t shirt and a burgundy suit to go play poker at my friend’s house…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Such as…

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 19w

literally posted then down below

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

and you'd probably be the best dressed person there!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

this one is more for going out but its still normal and sexy imo. it's definitely not high fashion hunger games tho friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 19w

well if i’m trying to attract women then why would i wear something that makes me look gay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

tokyo fashion we can agree on i will never be that cool

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

this is more or less a normal fit imo i think we've agreed this whole time😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

I mean sure if I’m trying to look a fool

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 19w

Ideal male fit right here

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 19w

Personally I’m going with the Berserk armor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Respectable

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 19w

Also respectable

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 19w

Personally I got dibs on the Aragorn fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 19w

honestly i don't see why you couldn't wear this now, screw social stigma i just think it be impractical but wear what u want king

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

it doesn't make you look gay? and if someone thinks you're gay just tell them you're not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

“Impractical” like any of the other ones are 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Brother if you think I can pull up to any kind of function save a Renaissance Faire wearing full armor and not get weird looks or possibly denied service you just wrong I’m ngl.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19w

imo most of the outfits i choose r normal casual outfits just with a lot of accessories

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 19w

oh you'll get weird looks but that doesn't matter lol just ignore them! it makes you happy 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

honestly i disagree i think all of the examples you show look quite gay to me idk what to tell you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

Yup

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