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Ask Men 21h

why don't men dress more slutty?

Anonymous 18h

The only one who will ever see me dress slutty is my future wife

Anonymous 17h

No options, have you seen the men’s section

Anonymous 18h

it’s not like girls ever approach so for me there’s no real reason

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Anonymous 15h

I’m dressed slutty right now

Anonymous 20h

Dress slutty for women that all hate us? Right.💀

Anonymous 16h

I dress slutty but most don't because they don't have to/want to. It doesn't attract the same attention as it does for women. It attracts other men. It's almost like broadcasting that you're gay. Women may like looking at male bodies but we're all socialized to respond to familiar kinds of showing off and men just tend not to do it with their bodies.

Anonymous 12h

Men don’t dress slutty for validation. If a man wants attention he will dress up into something respectable like a suit. You’re projecting female behavior onto males.

Anonymous 12h

You need to have a good body to be able to pull off that look. Most men do not have good bodies

Anonymous 18h

Is there a reason to?

Anonymous 17h

I bought a “woman’s” hoodie that’s slightly hoping it enhances my slutty appeal for men

Anonymous 14h

What could a men wear to be slutty?

Anonymous 20h

1. We don’t really care to be effeminate 2. There’s no market

Anonymous 10h

Dont worry guys I’m working on it

Anonymous 7h

5 inch inseam shorts work

Anonymous 14h

Currently investing in henleys don’t worry

Anonymous 8h

Defense mechanism. Filters out the wrong type of girl as potential partners.

Anonymous 16h

What reason do I have to?

Anonymous 11h

judging from what you think is ‘slutty’ in the comments, i wouldn’t wear that type of stuff bc i would come off as gay

Anonymous 8h

We have self respect

Anonymous

#8 16h

Unless if a sleeveless shirt and short shorts/boxers for bed are considered that anyway 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous

#8 15h

Sleeveless shirt yes, boxers no

Anonymous

#6 13h

The mens shirt that shows the most skin is called a WIFE BEATER! Terrible marketing.

Anonymous

#13 13h

henleys!! heeled boots!! skin tight clothing, the list goes on

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Anonymous

beestboy 13h

period

Anonymous

#3 13h

why

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Anonymous

#6 13h

there t definitely options

Anonymous

#9 13h

and you know this from your experience dressing slutty?

Anonymous

#5 13h

yes to look hot?

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Anonymous

#12 13h

KING

Anonymous

#1 13h

dressing slutty ≠ effeminate

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Anonymous

#8 13h

to look hot duh

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Anonymous

OP 13h

It often is or ig idk what’s slutty on men to women

Anonymous

#1 13h

wearing low rise jeans and having ur waistband out is slutty, wearing guyliner, henleys, shirts with low collars or slightly cropped. short shorts and tank tops. clothes don't have gender silly

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Anonymous

OP 12h

The Wolverine isn’t gonna look as manly in a dress as he is in a tank top and jeans

Anonymous

#15 12h

Is that not what she meant? I thought a suit was like the sluttiest thing a guy could wear. Man, they really got a whole other language huh

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Anonymous

#5 12h

How is professional attire REMOTELY similar to a woman wearing a mini skirt

Anonymous

#15 12h

..… In the sense it’s sometimes worn for the purpose of making the opposite sex horny?

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Anonymous

#5 12h

Reading the comments, when OP says men dressing slutty they mean SLUTTY as in like prostitution sheik.

Anonymous

#4 11h

(not that there’s anything wrong with that ofc)

Anonymous

OP 11h

Yes

Anonymous

OP 10h

I’m not putting out for these random women, plus I am 1) very self conscious and 2) don’t need to be eye candy for random women (no I don’t expect random women to dress slutty for dudes I think everyone needs to be wearing more clothes nowadays)

Anonymous

pirosnake 9h

I’ve never hired a male prostitute. Idek if I’ve even seen one, so I have no idea how they dress. Not suits, I’m gathering

Anonymous

#1 7h

i definitely think he would be manly 😭

Anonymous

#5 6h

a suit can be slutty! suit with no top

Anonymous

#3 6h

nah i wanna look hot

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Anonymous

#4 5h

i feel like if ppl r assuming your sexuality based on what you're wearing then those aren't the type of people you should be hanging around. clothes are clothes and they don't affect who you love! my first thought when i see a man with nail polish isn't "he's gay" it's "oh he likes his nails painted" and the same should apply to clothing. wear clothes you like and feel sexy in!

Anonymous

#18 5h

what do you mean by this? idk why all the comments are talking abt other people and what it attracts?? do you not just dress for yourself and what you like to wear??

Anonymous

#16 5h

what is a "good" body?

Anonymous

#4 5h

do it for yourself king!

Anonymous

#3 5h

also dressing slutty can improve self confidence, ik whenever i wanna feel better mentally i just look hot

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Anonymous

#19 5h

what does that have to do with anything?

Anonymous

OP 3h

Right now I’m on a 100% cotton, wool, or linen kick cuz it feels gooooood. (Highly recommend trying it) And it’s not my idea but I like the verbiage: clothes tight enough people know I’m a man but loose enough to leave something to the imagination appear to be the winning combo. Leaves a proper positive surprise for any girl I may eventually sleep with if those clothes come off. As far as the filter/attraction thing goes 1/2

Anonymous

#18 3h

2/2 I’ve dressed “slutty” in the past and while it showed I was a good time for the night (which is what some girls were looking for) it didn’t attract the type of girl who was open to even seeing that, and I mean this in the most humble way possible, I’m likely a very good long term investment as far as romantic relationships and commitment to family goes.

Anonymous

OP 4m

possibly the most revolting idea ive read this week💀