
I dress slutty but most don't because they don't have to/want to. It doesn't attract the same attention as it does for women. It attracts other men. It's almost like broadcasting that you're gay. Women may like looking at male bodies but we're all socialized to respond to familiar kinds of showing off and men just tend not to do it with their bodies.
My bf does thank goodness. I genuinely thought I was gay before I met him bc I just am not attracted to the way guys dress, style is EVERYTHING to me. But I do think the number one reason is our dumbass society associated it with being gay and there is this toxic fear of that ever happening most men have internalized. (And a lot of people DO assume my bf is gay, men and women, which is so disappointing) our society needs a rehaul about homophobia and toxic masculine attitudes in both genders
i feel like if ppl r assuming your sexuality based on what you're wearing then those aren't the type of people you should be hanging around. clothes are clothes and they don't affect who you love! my first thought when i see a man with nail polish isn't "he's gay" it's "oh he likes his nails painted" and the same should apply to clothing. wear clothes you like and feel sexy in!
Right now I’m on a 100% cotton, wool, or linen kick cuz it feels gooooood. (Highly recommend trying it) And it’s not my idea but I like the verbiage: clothes tight enough people know I’m a man but loose enough to leave something to the imagination appear to be the winning combo. Leaves a proper positive surprise for any girl I may eventually sleep with if those clothes come off. As far as the filter/attraction thing goes 1/2
2/2 I’ve dressed “slutty” in the past and while it showed I was a good time for the night (which is what some girls were looking for) it didn’t attract the type of girl who was open to even seeing that, and I mean this in the most humble way possible, I’m likely a very good long term investment as far as romantic relationships and commitment to family goes.
idk what your problem is with me or what 7th graders you've seen but this particular model is literally in fashion school or at least a fashion space, you can tell by the background. fashion is art, and all im asking is why do american men not see it that way. clearly the answer is due to insecurity and toxic masculinity. lots of these pictures r an average asian or european outfit.
im sorry but most of the outfits i chose are normal everyday outfits. if you want district one i can show u district one. this isn't remotely high fashion enough for you to be saying that. they are all dressed very casually. this is stylish and decent. if i saw someone dressed like any of them i'd probably compliment them and move on.