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Ask Men 15h
how can i stop attracting “nonchalant” men… i feel like i don’t give that vibe at all 😭
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Anonymous 14h

Not much u can do about that other than going for your type and knocking down the nonchalant guys

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Anonymous 15h

You probably don't, they're just the only ones who approach

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Anonymous 13h

Be more distant with them

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Anonymous 4h

Only go for chalant guys, like reward the attention they give you and stop talking to guys that are too cool

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