Ask Men on Sidechat | So my whole life I’ve struggled to make guy friends, I’ve tried everything, but men are just rude to me, I have to go out of my way and be way too nice to just be spoken to with short one-word replies. Yet other girls have no issue.

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Ask Men 9w

So my whole life I’ve struggled to make guy friends, I’ve tried everything, but men are just rude to me, I have to go out of my way and be way too nice to just be spoken to with short one-word replies. Yet other girls have no issue.

Anonymous 9w

What type of guys are you making friends with. Also guy friendships or at least groups tend to differ from women’s in a few ways

Anonymous 9w

Guy friendships are by nature far more low-maintenance. What you consider rude is just the default for most guys, because they don’t want to put a bunch of effort into just maintaining a friendship, and in return they don’t take much effort to maintain with. The average guy friendship consists of not speaking for months, one night of “Hey, beer?”, and everyone leaving on good terms

Anonymous 9w

In my new job the guys ignore me. It’s so weird. I’ve tried all types of approaches throughout my life, but it’s like there’s something about me that men just don’t like…

Anonymous 9w

I have this issue but with girls

Anonymous

#1 9w

None cause men literally ignore me, like I’ll approach a guy and ask him about his weekend and he’ll say “it was good” and will ask no follow-up questions or offer more info, and then he’ll turn around and start yapping with another girl.

Anonymous

#3 9w

Right but they don’t ask like that towards other girls though, they talk and joke around, and then give me dry answers. I’ll be in a room with my friends and they’ll come in and only talk to her, if I include myself they’ll be dry. And I’m only being friendly, so my looks shouldn’t matter in this case

Anonymous 8w

What they did last weekend, but when I asked they said “nothing”, or how they like to play Minecraft (I like to play Minecraft too but they asked other girls and not me, and when I said I did, they just said, “cool”)