
My roommates are incels and this is what I believe about them. Hypergamy protects their self image. It’s easier for them to believe it is because of the immorality of women that they don’t get any action, instead of realizing that they actually have to talk to and be respectful of women. Personally I’m anti slut but it takes 2 yk.
Okay that’s an opinion you’re allowed to have totally especially for your personal partners, but it doesn’t mean like you have to be against everyone who disagree. I personally couldn’t do sex without a connection but some people can and as long as they both consent, are safe, and aware it’s just sex it’s fully ok. I also agree sex should never be a form of self validation:) The anti slut thing just gave it a more hateful tone which I don’t think was your intent.
Also sex is fun and I think it being used as thrill seeking is entirely okay as long as, again, everyone is safe consenting and on the same page! Body counts are entirely okay to consider when discussing compatibility, but just like with weight or height, someone not matching your preferences doesn’t give you the right to shame them or say they’re wrong :)
Yeah how conventionally hot someone is doesn’t automatically mean they would only date someone else who’s conventionally hot. Looks are very subjective. My roomate is like the standard for conventional attractiveness but I don’t think she usually goes for conventionally attractive guys, we both agree personality carries a lot more.