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bruhhh j found out my bf watches porn/models when he… smh ik it’s common but it kinda j hurt a lil that it was my man too :( 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Anonymous 2w

It’s more than just common, the vast majority of men do it. If you have an issue with it you need to communicate that with him

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Anonymous 2w

that’s cheating

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Anonymous 2w

Talk to him about it

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Anonymous 1w

my bf and i watch porn when we masturbate. we also watch it together when we fuck sometimes and try to do the different positions. i honestly don't think its that big of a deal bc we r both high libido individuals. plus our current living situations make it where sometimes we just need to rub one out quickly and don't have time to sext. however if it bothers you, you should definitely tell him that it does.

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Anonymous 2w

Ask him not to

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Anonymous 1w

Wait what do dudes actually do that I just jerk off to the thought of my gf and that’s enough

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Anonymous 2w

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

srslyyyy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

yeahh we talked it out. but ig he said he wouldn’t find it a problem if i did too. and he kinda expected i did-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Did you tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

ya

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

And he’s not gone stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

well idk. i couldn’t find the words to express to him that it’s bad ? but tbh i wanna say smth cause i woke up the next morning and it still doesn’t sit right w me. should i text him ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It doesn’t matter how you tell him you but you need to express that you want him to stop doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

yeah, i j texted him abt it. hopefully he sees where im coming from

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah if he can’t you’re gonna have to make a tough decision

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

yeah.. i wish that was the case 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no it's not

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Maybe not to you but to some it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

except it isn't, i rather my bf cum to porn if he's horny than be irritable and frustrated until the next time we fuck. i think if its like excessive and affecting performance in the bedroom then it's problem but by definition cheating means to be intimate with another person that isn't your partner. watching porn is not having sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

i also might ask maybe he's masturbating bc there isn't enough intimacy between yall? not saying thats the case but it could be something that might be discussed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

To some it is because their partner is getting their rocks off to someone else who isn’t them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

yeah that’s how i feel abt it. cause i don’t use it.. j like my thoughts ? but i expressed my feelings to him. so i’m j praying that he’d take them into consideration next time he thinks abt his habits :’)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

well he is a guy.. and swear they’re naturally always tryna bust a nut 😭 but we’re at diff uni’s and kinda religious too, so sex isn’t a priority to us. we do, at least once a month. but not every chance we get

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

and i be making myself feel good when he can’t be w me either.. but ig i j don’t feel the need to use porn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

What are you gonna do if he keeps watching porn

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

well tbh i won’t really know if he still continues or not unless i ask. but he knows how i feel, so im j hoping he’ll mature enough to change his habits

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Wish you the best of luck then

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