
Weird, wouldn’t jump to calling her names, I can empathize with her not having much time outside her kids though. It’s just a bit weird, bc if I were a kid with my single mom doing that I’d feel uncomfortable, some things are better left more subtle and away from children till the right time for them to meet a significant other imo
I can imagine it’s difficult too! But that’s not what I feel is the issue here. First, if he’s a lifeguard and on duty, things change. She shouldn’t be distracting him. If a child and their mom see me for medical attention, the mom shouldn’t be flirting or otherwise distracting me from my job. Second, the fact that you AND your father both noticed enough to identify her interaction as “flirting” tells me it wasn’t exactly low key or covert. Kids may or may not see that and draw conclusions.