Anonymous oranguru 3w

Tbf I only be glancing occasionally, you’re right it is kinda weird to stare too long

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

That’s not right either bc it’s like assuming we’re a product

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Anonymous OP 3w

I introduced a poor analogy sorry. The idea is that it’s more comfortable just to sit there and do nothing when you see an attractive person than it is to risk rejection and embarrassment

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

I mean I guess but ppl act like we aren’t human lol. I would like to be approached, I’ve also been rejected too

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Anonymous OP 3w

You’re right, I totally get, and agree with, that sentiment. I think one of the greatest tragedies of modern life is the isolation allowed/imposed by the advent of social media. Back in the day, even nerdy and awkward guys had to engage with women on a day to day basis, now it’s all too easy for people to get sucked into incel and red pill ideologies that objectivize women. It easy to see women as alien when you struggle to interact with them

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

I mean yes but also they can choose to interact. I live in a area where obviously guys stare so I try to interact even if I’m shy

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yea I definitely agree that men need to interact with women more and have more women friends, not just to humanize women, but because it will improve their life too

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

Ofc it will. They’re desperate for woman’s energy and attention but try to attain it the wrong way

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Anonymous OP 3w

This is a banger line and describes like 50% of what’s wrong with the cultural ideal of “masculinity”. Men identify so much with their desire for women and ability to attract women that they behave in antisocial ways to get what they want.

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

What antisocial ways

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Anonymous OP 3w

harassing women, being overly pushy, deceiving women about their intentions, trying to fight or assert dominance over other men

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Anonymous #2 3w

Ejection is a part of life tho. For men and women so that part I don’t understand

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Anonymous OP 3w

Agreed but to understand it you have to know that when you genuinely think someone is pretty or fun, most of the time we aren’t going to say anything because there is always a what if. Not on this but we tell ourselves that it might not be worth the effort when we have already been told no by others. So there is always fear within men.

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Anonymous #2 3w

Do you think girls don’t think that too

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Anonymous OP 3w

100% but the only difference is that men are usually the ones that approach. Not saying the women can’t but it’s just typically how it happens.

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Anonymous #2 3w

Idk I say you lose all the ch lances you dotn take

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Anonymous OP 3w

True true

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Anonymous OP 3w

I fear I’ve lost more chances than there are women in the world (some chances I passed up twice)

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

There’s a lot of guys who lost chances w me im sure. I’m pretty but kind lmao

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Anonymous OP 3w

Real. I think a lot of women underestimate how many guys are interested in them because they assume any guy interested would approach them. They think there’s something wrong with them, but it’s actually the guys being silly

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

Yeah I had to realize that. It’s a bit frustrating. The states but I can get it. But also they r losing out lol. I like guys who are straight forward

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yup assertiveness is THE most important factor in successful dating. People will convince themselves that it all reduces to looks or money or whatev bc they are scared of rejection. That said I’m totally guilty of not shooting my shot

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Anonymous oranguru 3w

Yepp theyll realize eventually

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Anonymous #3 3w

I’m tryna spread awareness. I never said you had to do anything just be aware of it. And no it’s not part of the “game”

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Anonymous OP 3w

Alr bruh

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Anonymous #4 3w

Wdym no

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