Ask Men on Sidechat | do you guys actually care about body count or is it just an incel talking point?? like i just don’t get how it makes a difference because ive slept with 4 people but ive probably had way more sex in my life than most women who have high body counts

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Ask Men 1d

do you guys actually care about body count or is it just an incel talking point?? like i just don’t get how it makes a difference because ive slept with 4 people but ive probably had way more sex in my life than most women who have high body counts

Anonymous 1d

I care insomuch as for religious purposes I still have a body count of 0 and I’d like to be with someone who is as religious or moreso than me, but I don’t believe body count determines someone’s worth or anything like those incels

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Anonymous 1d

Most of us don’t even think about it. Some guys are really weird about it but the vast majority of us don’t care.

Anonymous 1d

I personally care. A significant emotional bond occurs with a first sexual interaction, and I personally for moral reasons as well as hoping the woman i choose doesnt see me as just a number or experience, didnt spend time “Exploring” just to finally land on me. That wouldnt make me feel very special. It would make me feel like im next in line.

Anonymous 1d

I’m so sick of the hearing women say the word “incel”. The buzzword fest is boring

Anonymous 1d

Ima virgin so i want someone under 5. After 5 i think you do not view sex the same as me. Also how you got the bodies matters way more, 5 relationships are not the same as 5 hookups. Even though it means more sex the 5 relationships are way better than 5 hookups

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beaver_19 1d

even when it’s 0? i’ve heard most guys don’t want that responsibility

Anonymous

#4 1d

But to preface unless you’re MY dating prospect i couldn’t care less about a body count.

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Anonymous

#3 1d

I mean, I don’t personally care

Anonymous

#4 16h

but like why? not that i’m judging you im just curious because id much rather have a guy who’s hooked up with 5 people than had 5 whole relationships before me

Anonymous

#2 16h

ya that’s fair i do get it if you’re a virgin and feel more comfortable with someone who’s also less experienced

Anonymous

OP 16h

If it wasn’t for the religious aspect I don’t think I’d care as much about body count, but a huge experience discrepancy wouldn’t be fair to either partner imo. Like I said I don’t think it determines someone’s worth or anything like that and I’ve got friends who I know have a count of 0 and a pretty wild count, it doesn’t change how I feel about them