Ask Men on Sidechat | I’m I an asshole for nicely telling a guy, on a dating app, that I don’t like being called “ma’am” especially since we are the same age (19). In the south, it’s typically referred to older women. After that he said I have no manners and ghosted me 😐

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Ask Men 1w

I’m I an asshole for nicely telling a guy, on a dating app, that I don’t like being called “ma’am” especially since we are the same age (19). In the south, it’s typically referred to older women. After that he said I have no manners and ghosted me 😐

Anonymous 1w

If he wasn’t able to meet you where you are regardless of what maam means generally, you dodged a bullet. It’s not hard to not call you a nickname even if he means it in an endearing way. He’s not perceiving your feelings only his intentions, which is a huge red flag

Anonymous 1w

In the south it’s considered a respectful thing to call someone lmao

Anonymous 1w

If a guy called me ma’am consistently instead of just an occasional way to flirt, I would hate it

Anonymous 1w

I mean does it matter if u are or not? The situation is over just find someone new

Anonymous 1w

Could have been a playful remark, but you’ll never know now

Anonymous

#2 1w

No he was serious but I didn’t made a big deal out of it. He kept doing it and then I stopped saying anything about it. Then got upset with me.

Anonymous

#3 1w

I completely understand but I wanted a more casual conversation since we are the same age