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What does it mean if your guy bestfriend kisses you out of the blue? Cause I’m a bit confused.
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Anonymous 9w

It means he’s been waiting for a day where he gets a chance at you and after waiting for so long he made a hail mary which deservingly failed

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Anonymous 9w

“what does it mean when my stomach grumbles? 🤔”

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Anonymous 9w

We’ll update on this, he removed me without reason so rn I’m sad because I lost 3 years of friendship without an answer😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Well he’s never told me how he’s felt at all, and I’m a bit blunt when it comes to things when it comes to my friends so it just confused me slightly, especially when we both agreed to be just friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

He agreed to be friends bc he doesn’t know how to proceed with you let alone make a move, so he planted himself as the friend role in hopes that the universal forces favored him. That or he just grew feelings over time, pretty natural in that dynamic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Lets be real here there are different types of grumbles. The hunger grumbles, storms a brewing grumbles, and hold on tight cause you're about to go through hell grumbles

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

you’re lowkey right, my stomach is lowkey giving me the first rn 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

What’s weird tho is that after I left it was extremely awkward and he went quiet, now he won’t message me so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Doesn’t necessarily mean that he liked her all along. He could have developed feelings for her later. But #1 is still correct.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Omg that’s so mean! If somebody doesn’t like me I still want them as a friend usually. Because if I like romantically it’s because I liked them as a person first.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Of course it’s different now, he crossed the point of no return. He doesn’t know how/if to handle you anymore. He made his move that went nowhere so he’s stuck in emotional limbo. If you think there’s still a chance at friendship, you can repair it by clearly, and carefully guiding him back

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