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Why do guys have such a hatred for girls who go to the club?? Especially when those girls are their gfs??? I don't go but why should I care what they do for fun since its not hurting anyone
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Anonymous 3w

I don’t think guys hate girls who go to the club but if it’s your gf I can see how it would make them concerned. For example say your man went to the club without you, you would not feel comfortable with multiple girls hitting on him Offering to buy him drinks or inviting him to after parties, maybe other girls wanting to dance on him, touch him or asking him to come back to their place. Obviously this doesn’t happened to guys but most definitely happens to a lot of girls.

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Anonymous 3w

Nothing good happens at clubs. Clubs are where people go to have a place where it’s socially acceptable to get trashed enough to do shit that you would never do while sober. That is there literal purpose. What good could possibly come of your significant other going there without you, regardless of male or female?

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Anonymous 3w

Because they’re the ones creeping on girls at the club. My partner has zero issue with me going out without him, he just wants to make sure I’m safe so he watches my location. Every accusation is a confession

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Anonymous 3w

Clubs are for single people

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Anonymous 3w

I hate popular party people in general

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Why would other people touch other strangers? That's weird and I think he is a grown adult enough to tell them to get away or at least physically move away. Besides I trust that nothing will happen since its just party, what's the worse that could happen? If something bad does happen then I just dodged a red flag and I can break up with him now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’m gonna touch you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

You wish 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’ve seen girls getting groped by guys at the club, I’ve seen girls cheat on their partners and I’ve heard stories. Obviously not every girl is like that. I wanted you to see it from the male perspective so you can understand why we’d be uneasy about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Tbh my partner and I both want each other to be offered paid-for drinks, but I get your point. Either way, it’s not about what others are doing to entice your partner, it’s about your partner’s response to that. My partner knows I’m hot, and that I’m going to get hit on. It even happens when he’s present. He almost takes it as a compliment, and only gets upset when someone is being extremely aggressive towards me because it becomes unsafe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

What did they do to you? lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They’re assholes and everyone still likes them for some reason

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