Ask Men on Sidechat | today i was essentially dumped by a guy i went on 3 dates with. we have not had sex. i told him upfront i don’t have sex outside of relationships. today he dumped me because “women break rules for guys they actually like” this CANNOT be a common belief???

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today i was essentially dumped by a guy i went on 3 dates with. we have not had sex. i told him upfront i don’t have sex outside of relationships. today he dumped me because “women break rules for guys they actually like” this CANNOT be a common belief???

Anonymous 5w

he clearly thinks pushing boundaries is okay. it sucks that you found out three dates in, but on the other hand you could’ve found out three months in. i’m sorry this happened, but someone who actually respects you and your boundaries will come along eventually

Anonymous 5w

It is a common belief lmfao, not really when it comes to sex though

Anonymous 5w

Ew good riddance

Anonymous 5w

Dodged a bullet

Anonymous 4w

I see what he’s trying to say and it sounds like he was hurt in the past by someone else but he needs to get over himself

Anonymous 5w

obviously not

Anonymous 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous

#4 5w

i don’t know any women who like men who know what a boundary is, and pressure her into breaking those rules “if you really liked me 🥺” that’s a manipulative ass thing to say

Anonymous

OP 5w

They definitely exist, and often they throw in gender roles to justify it

Anonymous

#3 5w

bro time and place