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I messed up so bad with a man what are the odds he gives me a second chance
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Anonymous 1d

Depends how bad you messed up abs how much it hurt him

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Anonymous 19h

Depends on what you did but usually very high

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

He didn’t get sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

You didn't mess up in the slightest, and it worries me you see this as something you did wrong. Is it okay if we ask if he's pressuring you or he's upset if you didn't want to do it? If so, this is super wrong of him to do and reveals him as someone who either thinks like a rapist or is a rapist already, and he's not a safe person to be around I'm really sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

bro they repkied, and its such a red flag from the dude😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Idk I went over there because he wanted too and I didn’t so I wasted his time he’s left me on read since so I guess that’s better than being blocked I’m just upset I should’ve just done it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

I'm so sorry, the way he's treating you is really awful and it's not okay. It's very wrong of him to be pressuring or judgmental you didn't wanna do that so you really didn't do anything wrong and you shouldn't blame yourself for anything. It reveals everything wrong about him this was his reaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Idk maybe I need to apologize I did mess up but I also can’t read his mind he has to like tell me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

He needs to apologize to YOU! You did nothing wrong and he was the one being a fucking child

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Anonymous replying to -> beaver_19 8h

Well like I was in an abusive relationship so I’m not like used to what happened last night watching a move and talking and shit. It used to be I was thrown on a bed and what he wanted he did. So I feel bad for not like picking up on his body language and stuff idk I just fell bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

He should have been more clear with you and even then he is not entitled to sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> beaver_19 8h

Idk like idk maybe I’m just in my head about this because of how he was nice to me then kinda standoffish idk maybe I have rose colored glasses from being abused

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