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he only likes skinny blonde sorority girls and i’m brunette, curvier, and bit more alternative but every time we hang out we have a really good time together. is the only reason he doesn’t want me bc im big and a little weird?
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Anonymous 12w

What makes you believe you aren’t wanted. ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

he’ll flirt w me/buy my drinks, but he only takes home ppl who don’t look like me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

What would happen if you tried to progress things forward ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

too scared i would lose him as a friend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Does it hurt to see him choose other people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Sometimes you have to take risks for peace of mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

a little. not to be crude but it’s more of a “what’s wrong w me that makes him not wanna fuck me”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

There’s nothing wrong with you, you just MIGHT not be his type. What you can do is just escalate the flirting slightly. Do you compliment him or like casually touch him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

yeah we compliment each other a lot. and yeah i guess so. we smoke together so we get pretty close to each other/touch hands to pass it off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If he compliments your looks then you’re good to go. I def think you could maybe pull off a snuggle or eventually a makeout especially if you’re drinking/smoking

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

that’s the issue. it’s more like “that fit is fire” “i like your necklaces tn” and less about my actual looks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Hmm it’s tricky. Maybe you could compliment his looks particularly or go for a snuggle. I don’t think that’s too risky if you wanna try for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

wordd thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Good luck. Don’t think that boys are so strict in their “types” that they wouldn’t like you. Just have fun with it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Nothing has to be wrong with you for him to not be interested.

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