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Ask Men 13h
Why do a lot of men ghost after sex? When i do anything remotely sexual with someone i get more attached and want them to stay in my life more regardless, stay friends at least
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Anonymous 13h

Because they didn’t like the sex

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Anonymous 10h

Hurt ppl hurt ppl

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Anonymous 11h

Idk I’m the same and I’m a dude… but the girls always end up leaving eventually for whatever reason

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Anonymous 8h

Idk why, I'd personally never ghost after sex cuz I'd wanna keep it going, but I also get zero play so maybe I'm doing it wrong

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Anonymous 12h

Are you a man or a girl?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Girl lol, this is the ask men section

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

Yeah it sucks, im only asking guys cuz im straight and have only gotten this from men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I think people in general just don’t like to be with the same person for too long. Like I would happily stay with the same person and do what they wanted if they wanted that… but I guess not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Oh, me too. I didnt know if guys sometimes ask guys questions. But anywhooo i think healthy people feel like you and unhealthy ppl dont

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Yeah, i feel like its wrong to ghost after sex, after something so intimate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

The trick is, since it is so special, a really special guy who has worked very hard for you is the only one who should even get a shot at it Men know this too, but they have trouble respecting people who give them something so precious freely. Or they are just the type that doesn’t give respect in any case.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 53m

Its okay, id rather have a guy that wants to stay but does it imperfectly then a guy that leaves

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