Why don’t men understand that if you being chalant turns off the woman - than that girl didn’t like you enough. Vice versa w a woman having to dim themselves in front of a man. Be yourself nd move on to the next person. Shit happens. Eventually you can’t fake that persona forever

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i used to be really energetic and chalant with girls but that usually ended up with them being icked out by it thinking i’m doing too much

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Yall say you want that, but it really isn’t.

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ok 👍

5

I’m trying I’m jus awkward as hell

5

I mean you need to be chalant too

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ALWAYS

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I am, but I’m not going to open up completely at the start of knowing a girl. For sure I’ll express interest and don’t hide my personality, but it’s not going to be like how I am with my friends right away. That kind of connection takes time to make

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Nah

1

No thanks

1

With who?

1

what exactly is wrong with being non chalant?

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Chalant men are the best

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